this is life. there’s no manual. no hallmark card that can make one bit of difference when the going gets shitty. but in my experience, somehow the hard times have a tendency to work out, or at least they just end…in the end. 
at least we’ve had the times we’ve had. and no one, not even god can take that away from us…but then again, there’s always alzheimer’s.
xofrnk.